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Amanda Claire Vesty's avatar

Hmm 'Mean Girls' anyone? Women can be absolute bitches. How many of us were bullied at school by a group of girls? Women can be abusers too let's not forget. Womens' history is fascinating and rightfully deserves unpicking, and that also means acknowledging that women can be really fucking horrible in and of themselves too. A short crass answer but, also unfortunately, an accurate one.

Reminds me of those women in the US who are very antifeminist, Christian and see their husbands as head of their households. Some of them have social media accounts promoting quite extreme views.

Also makes me think of class, privilege and how that power corrupts too. I live in the UK and even now in this day and age in suburbia it's the married women who seem to have greater status. Woe betide single women trying to talk to their husbands (about the most mundane of topics even). The women speak on their husbands' behalf to organise things because somehow a married man should not talk to a single woman ... weird.

Good to see you back and thank you for sharing what has been happening with you and the lessons and insights you are gaining. stepping away from toxic situations, unmasking, beliefs, ideas ... perceptions. Wiping the mirror clean ... things seem different

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PKOpal's avatar

I had a feeling of awe and a strange elation as it became clear to me. After a major trauma that upended my life, my instinct was to go to ground. So I retreated back to esoteric topics and feminist interests of mine 30 years ago.

I reexmined my life and the luck or lack there of that shaped it. Choices made and options weighed, the road to me has been wretching and wonderful, adventurous and audacious, and worth every step to find me unabashed and clean after so many years. I now have a bright clear lens towards the future as I build on my past..

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